How to deal with abuse

A quick consultation on shifting the mental state of the abused person. It's about dealing with the fallout. Also tips on how to help the abuser change his behaviour.
Abusers often think they are the ones being abused. Changing that can do wonders for couples.
This consultation should provide you with the tools on how to properly deal with abuse, no matter if you are the abuser or the one being abused. Without training it will not improve significantly. The person's consciousness needs to be expanded in order to realize the triggers and to stop the reaction (also works both ways).