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Beat Burnout and Reclaim Your Energy

I see you—the woman who’s juggling it all. You want to be the best mom, the loving partner, the successful manager, the one who always has it together—with money in the bank and a smile on your face.
But running on low battery while trying to be everythin… continue

Sosan Kanchi•1y ago

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THE CORE HUMAN PAIN: SEPARATION FROM GOD

The pain in here is when the Masculine withdraws his attention, which is felt in the system as rejection or abandonment.

When I say the Masculine, what I mean is Consciousness, Presence, Attention, Love. They’re all synonymous.

You can see this in the relationship with your Father figure if you look close enough and with enough sincerity.

As a a child, a little girl or a little boy, something makes you upset, angry, frustrated, jealous maybe...and so you fully express it. A temper tantrum maybe. Your father doesn't know how to deal with you in that moment because of many reasons but mostly because nobody held space for him in his emotions as a child, so he simply doesn’t know how to contain you, or that he should. Maybe he feels intimidated or powerless in front of your free expression as a child. Whatever it may be. Not ignoring the seed of manipulation in this either.

So this scene goes on and on throughout your childhood. You feel strong emotion, express it out and your father withdraws his attention or disapproves of you in that moment, in those moments. He fails to meet you emotionally and so you are left abandoned or you feel rejected in your full expression.

And so you learn exactly this, to abandon yourself when certain emotion arises or to reject yourself, whatever the case may be. Because Attention withdraws, these things grow in the Shadow, but this is another conversation.

Now you are an adult with a very well groomed ego and anything threatening that ego will be perceived as dangerous. Even Truth, even your full authentic expression or anyone shining a light on the overlay you created on top of reality. Even if, as the case may be, this overlay is a complete delusion. There are people out there being completely miserable and unfulfilled in a relationship while telling themselves the story that they are in a healthy, loving connection.
Your identity is so well crafted that anything threatening it, will be filtered out from your perception. This is how people spend years on end in talk therapy, and getting nowhere. That’s actually the point, to give you the impression that you are healing, developing, evolving while in reality this is not the case, because that would mean Death for the wounded identity you hold so dearly. So you just grow your ego with more and more information, reading another book, taking another course, thinking that you heal yourself and grow and develop, while none if these is actually happening (overlay).

Hypnotherapy is actually a tool that would help you break through that wounded identity and actually grow as a being, but I see many people running the other way. It’s actually their ego, sensing its own death and therefore convincing them that past life regression is unsafe or whatever argument works for them. The ego always knows how to convince you. It’s your ego after all and it knows you very well. Better than you do.

By the way, when I say wounded identity I mean just that, the ego.

And so, in reality the only path ahead to real healing, real self development and cultivation of your true being is by meeting this wound in yourself and stop rejecting yourself, stop abandoning yourself.

Then Presence grows. Then love grows. Then awareness grows. Then you learn to hold yourself in love, and you get to know how sweet and tender you are, you get to see who you really are. And so, Beauty unravels, Magic is revealed and Life becomes a Play.

But first you gotta meet that Grief, that pain of separation which is actually well covered by your very own ego. This is what the ego is for actually, to help you survive. You can thank it for taking you that far and take the rains of your life into your own hands. There will be a constant dance with Death when it comes to the ego. Growth and Death, Growth and Death and so on. So don’t worry about letting your ego die, you will get a bigger one to Dance with. It’s Endless because you are Endless.

Much love to all,

Sosan

Suresh Kumar•2y ago

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Munix•2y ago

Don’t beat up yourself for having high expectations in relationships
You have (and can give) what it takes to have high expectations

People with high expectations oftentimes are willing to give what they anticipate

People who aren’t willing to live up to your standards are the ones who tell you not to expect anything (maybe from them, which will be fair enough). But as humans, it’s hard not to expect. Expectation comes from a place of hope, the hope that something will pan out the way we want it. And honestly, that’s not a bad thing. Why? Because as long as we’re ready to give equal energy to the kind we expect, there’s nothing selfish about that.
It’s like having standards of whom you want to be engaged with romantically. It’s not self-alluding to name the traits or characteristics you want from a person, as long as you’re keeping up with your part of the bargain. For example, you want a fit person? I hope you are keeping fit, you want an honest person? I hope honesty is your policy. If you expect to be purposeful, I hope you are doing something (at least?) for it. Stuff like that…

Expectations form our standards or codes of conduct in any given situation.

But these days, especially in relationships, we are told not to expect or anticipate anything from anybody. I get how that can certainly lead to disappointment in the long run, but it’s not enough to erase it from the relationship dictionary. Expectations form the standard or code of conduct between two people or more in any situation. Especially if they have to keep meeting one another. Therefore, I’m postulating that it’s not self-deprecating to expect some level of love and respect from your loved ones, care and consideration from your close friends, and good behavior from the general public. People play it safe (and I used to believe) in living by the mantra: hope for the best, but expect the worst. There’s a silver lining greater than the average credit this quote has received. You’re expecting while hoping. Check it.

#advice #purpose #thoughts #personal development

Thanks for taking the time to read.

#general

Sabrina-Louise Holloway•2y ago

Our Story: Start of the Hairless Primate- Ashe!

Most Earthlings do a double take when digesting the ancestorial story about The ADAM and his helpmate Eve. Not over the technically-truth-speaking Serpent, or its high stakes three-move checkmate chess game, playing chicken with the Hairless Primates. Instead, most will agree on how this fable’s symbolic acrobatics are awe inspiring and bigger than imagined.

The specific type of hanging fruit on the Tree of Good and Bad can be, and will be, a topic of debate for many readers. Was the slick talking reptilian a winged-snake or dragon? Such questions of messages or lessons shared are busy thinking but lacks thought. Could that be why Earthlings are having a real task of latching on their evolutional elevator? This story is included in basic mythology of Mankind history and definitely instructs all of how the life journey began.

The ADAM and his girl were living and naturally growing upward until they took a bite in the Creator’s rules of construction and destruction (taught as good and bad.) Meaning a decision had to be made by the lead Yahweh Elohim who was running the planet at the time. Remember? Adam and Eve got kicked out before becoming immortal. For some reason, modern Earthlings focus on the generational curses their ancestors incurred instead of the benefits they were walking into. This event built the bridge to manifesting one of the reasons Earthlings now lack strength of word/spelling.

Universal Law states that living energy is given to anything focused on. Earthlings have decided to focus on father ADAM and mother Eve’s pain and toil. Hardships are the days when truth states how this entire curse can be stopped with a shift of attention. When dissecting this tale, the diamond in our pocket is the skill of discretion. We have immorality in our fingertips just waiting to be eaten; the hope of Yahweh Elohim is that we never pause and become empowered by this fact. The reason: the creation is never stronger than the creator, and Yahweh Elohim and his team are not, were not, the Creators of the Hairless Primate. The team were the scientist(s) doing the hard work. They didn’t think the ADAM into existence which is why they became frighten upon learning about his eating of the fruit.

The Creator’s Law states, all that is good is allowed to survive. In the creation of Man story, every step is reviewed and declared good before moving to the next. For Man, the next step was supposed to be travelling entire creation as immortal emotional beings. By creation I’m speaking of anything THAT IS because although we are told Yahweh Elohim is I AM THAT I AM he isn’t as too many overlooking are made by him even today.

Motivation to obtain freedom. Motivation to become immortal. Motivation to leave our blue water planet with the goal of having exploring adventures. If we look at the fact that life was striving and thriving in Earth’s waters before Yahweh Elohim, and his team arrived to restart the numerous Ages of Men, we’ll see we are (were) destined to do great things from the beginning of the Thought known as Man. Whomever the reptile, or dragon, talking things over with the ADAM and Eve may have been upset with the entire role Man was in — all due to a stronger thought force was enslaving a weaker one.

Maybe the ADAM can step into empowerment of Self, Spirit, and Soul, returning to where they were naturally headed until a detour was forced upon them. For at least those are my hopes, thoughts, and motivational actions. Being that Earthlings are aligned (mentored even) with otherworldly beings, who both guide and record life on this planet, since Earth’s election of Sons of Men such as Saul, we should be able to create our own future adventures of exploration once we become empowered and strong.

Law states that what is needed will always be supplied. Earthlings need a god(s) to teach us how to be both good and immortal so we will be the emotionally powerful, space travelling gods. Then, as good gods, we will wear our immortality and take our rightful position at the council steering this existence.

Yeah. That sounds like a good idea!

#general