It's time to start putting yourself first and believing you deserve it.
Isn't it exhausting to always calculate your actions based on other people's opinions of you? Isn't it exhausting to always put others first while you suffer, just to please them or to show them that you care?
Doing what feels good to you doesn't mean you lack love for others around you. It simply means you also love yourself just as much. Learn how to invest in you and pursue all the things that make you happy and fulfilled. Even if it's just taking yourself on a two-day trip or saying NO to going out with friends because you prefer a quiet night at home or working less and taking some time off for your mental health.
Remember that you're just as important as those you love.
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It is important to prioritize self-care and self-love. Putting yourself first means taking the time and effort to take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. This can include setting boundaries, saying no to things that do not align with your values, and making time for activities that bring you joy. Believing that you deserve to take care of yourself is also important. It is not selfish to prioritize your own needs and well-being. Remember that when you take care of yourself, you are better able to take care of others and contribute positively to the world around you.