I see you with your books.
Trying to find the perfect juice cleanse, tapping on YouTube, bingeing every podcast you can find.
And I get it. But when you’re done with your deep breathing and ice bath, come towel off and sit with me a while. And let me ask you...are you getting any closer? Or are you sinking deeper into shame?
Is your quest for perfection—the push to FIX yourself helping? I believe you’re doing amazing work, really I do! But if your goal is deeper intimacy, better sex, more connected relationships, then working alone may not be they key you’re looking for.
In fact, your grinding might be giving you more places to hide…more impossible standards to (not) meet. You may be setting yourself up for loneliness and disappointment. My love, stop torturing yourself.
And, for some of you, stop pouring money down the drain on things that might just leave you feeling empty, frustrated, or not enough.
If you’re going to invest your precious time…money…resources…invest it in something POWERFUL not piecemeal.
I am a safe investment, because you are a safe investment. And that is who I am here for…you.
As a coach I am real, present, dynamic, and ready to spot your growing edges and help you meet your goals. A podcast cannot look you in the eyes. A book will not call you out when it’s time to course correct.
Men, I know you’re hungry for this kind of connection. A new approach. Permission to let go and trust.
Intimacy is a shared experience. Don’t wait until you’re on your first date with someone new to remember that rush (and possible panic). Come do it with me AND unpack the challenges that propelled you into a healing journey to begin with.
Whether it’s a struggle to flirt or you’re stressed over some mechanical issues in the bedroom we can talk it out and see what kinds of edges you’ve got that could use a little pushing.
All sessions are clothes-on at all times but I’m not gonna deny that the conversations can get quite steamy, often deep, and always FUN.
See you soon!