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June 1

Self Confidence Is A Super Power

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'Self Confidence is a super power, Once you start to believe in yourself, that's when the magic starts to happen'

How many times have you heard someone say just believe in yourself and you are thinking 'WHHHHHAAAATTTTT' what does that mean? Well you might be so far from here right now that you don't even believe that self confidence and self worth is even possible. You probably hate yourself right now, (well maybe not hate as that's a really strong word) but you probably dislike yourself right now for you to even begin to imagine what it feels like to have so much confidence and that you radiate around the earth in your true self.

Well let me tell you, that in 3 months from now, six months from now, a year from now do you still want to be feeling the same as you do now? No I didn't think so, so lets start right now with a daily affirmation that will make you feel confident about yourself right now.

Say to yourself 'I believe in myself and that I will do great things today, I wont let my mind dictate what I will do that will make me feel bad, I am strong'. By doing this everyday and starting with a positive mindset anything is possible. It takes hard work, determination and a lot of healing to get to where you want to be. I know that you can have whatever you want and be a confident person. Its all within us, its just mindset. So change the way you think today.

I used to be quite shy as a child but as I've grown up and got more confident and believed in myself, anything is possible. In 2012 I had a miscarriage and that really knocked my confidence as I knew I wanted a child so badly, but once I'd grieved for it, I got back up, brushed myself off and started again. Nothing was going to get in the way of me having a child. To me it was natures way of saying this one wasn't right for the world and you will go on to have more children who will be loved and cherished even more than this one. Then 8 months later I fell pregnant with Hugo our son who is now 7. So anything is possible if you just believe it.

Believe in yourself, be confident in what you want and how you want to get it. Set little steps everyday for you to achieve self confidence. Dress in clothes that make you feel confident and for your higher self. Wear make up if you don't normally. Do something that a confident person would do. The more you do these things everyday, the more confident you will become without even knowing about it.

So have that super power that is self confidence. You can and you will, no matter how ,ow you feel right now. Believe and you will have it.

So let me know in the comments below what you are struggling with and what kind of things you will be doing to help yourself get more confidence. I would love to know.

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Gemma Nice
Jun 10, 2021

Hey, I hope you are well. Ahh no worries, I'm so glad this resonates with you. Of course, that's fine. I know this roll sound strange but if people don't like you, then they aren't true friends at all. You've said you've lost so much for being insecure. Does this stem from childhood or something that's happened to you in the past? You can message me if you don't want this broadcast on here. Confidence comes from within and it doesn't matter what people think of you, you need to love yourself. I know it's hard to not care what others think, and believe me, I've been there with family members myself but it consumes so much energy and you just feel drained from it, so it's best to try and change your thought process of 'I don't care who doesn't like me, I'm going to like myself' and when you do this you start to feel so much more confident in yourself. Try doing little things to change you as well, so for example who do you want to be? Dress or wear things that you want to be and that make you feel good and more confident. If you don't wear makeup, maybe put some mascara on, wear heels or anything that you makes you feel like a higher self of you. The more confident you are and become, the more you will respect yourself and the more you will carry yourself higher. Your shoulders will be back, posture will be great, you will feel happier and feel taller. It does take some work but it's totally worth it. Your friends and family will notice a huge difference in you and will compliment you in good ways which will make you want to carry on. It's all about being confident and finding that strength within you to change for the better. Trust me, you really will feel amazing and will never look back. Huge huge hugs xxx

Emma Gardner
Jun 10, 2021

Thank you so much for this article! These are really correct and helpful words. It may sound strange, but I don't seem to be quite sure if I want to be confident in myself. Let me explain. It seems to me that the image of an insecure and squeezed girl somehow protects me. People see me as a shy girl, so they are kind and condescending to me. It even seems to me that they love me only for my modesty and silence. I want to be confident, I missed so much in my life because of my insecurity, but I'm afraid if I become more confident and change, then people will stop loving me and treating me well. Maybe you could give me some advice on this please?

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