November 7

Finding your Passion

Most of us are not born with just one passion.

Throughout our lives, we may try a little bit of one thing and discover it is not for us and then move on to the next thing. The aim is not a destination – an ultimate discovery that will prove to be the thing we have been looking for our whole lives, and when we find it, that is our purpose. This idea is romantic and lures us away from our natural tendency to explore life.

You need to find something you are passionate about and do that!

What legacy are you going to leave?

You are older now, why have you not figured it out yet?

What are you doing with your life?

Set better goals for yourself!

The problem with passion

When people become passionate about something, they give everything they have to it; their time, money, energy, focus and even sanity. Passion, like a fire, needs constant attention, or it will die out. And sometimes it does because the energy it takes to sustain it is exhausting. What is then left is our reality.

The alternative – a Hummingbird and a Jackhammer

In a public presentation, Elizabeth Gilbert (author of Eat, Pray Love) shared a letter she received from a rather upset fan. The letter was about a powerful talk she gave around passion and why it is so important to have one.

The letter read as follows:

I have never felt worse about myself than what I do after listening to your talk. I am in my early 50’s now and have worked very hard and given everything I have to find what my life’s passion is, and I’m sad to say that I do not have one. I have never felt more of a failure than I do right now.

After receiving that, Elizabeth scrapped all her content and produced an anti-passion campaign. She tells a beautiful story about a hummingbird and a jackhammer.

Those who have a burning passion for something are like the jackhammers. They put their heads down, work hard, invest a lot of energy, time and focus into it and tend to make a lot of noise whilst doing so.

Then there are the hummingbirds. They flit around from flower to flower and from field to field sipping the nectar from different types of floras. They do not favour one flower over another; instead, they enjoy all the varieties. They are curious creatures and therefore often lead rich and wonderful lives because of their experiences, interesting journeys and a wide range of skills.

Curiosity opens the doors for new possibilities.

Unlike passion, curiosity does not have a price tag. It is free, honest, pure and available to everyone at any time. Not only is it a great quality to possess, but research has also proven that it has some amazing benefits. It is also one of the three key predictors of academic achievement.

A study published in 2013, through George Mason University, suggested that curious people tend to be:

  • more tolerant of anxiety
  • humorous and playful
  • emotionally expressive
  • non-defensive
  • non-critical.

Curiosity appears to be a force within us that not only enhances learning but opens us up to more positive perspectives and experiences.

According to another study done in 2014 through the Centre for Neuroscience, University of California, our brain chemistry actually changes when we become curious, which helps us learn and remember information.

Whether you are a determined jackhammer or a curious hummingbird, do not let mere labels hinder you from living an extraordinary life.

And maybe while you follow your curiosities, you will eventually discover your passion.

Passion is a tower of flame, but curiosity is a tiny tap on the shoulder — a little whisper in the ear that says, hey, that’s kind of interesting. - Elizabeth Gilbert

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