Life is full of headaches, full of people that seem to want what we all want and our wants are always unlimited and materials limited, battle for the few fierce.

Sure, life sucks. It has turned into a reality TV show kind of living these days where people watch from their houses to see how competitors survive in the wilderness or wherever isolation from civilization It is they found themselves.

The reality of it all outside the make-believe of the TV reality is that no one went through your wilderness to make sure health requirements are met by at least 50 percent, and no hidden treasure, no promised rewards, or paramedics lurking behind the cameras in case.

Life's reality is real as real can be. You need to go find your treasure and the headache there is that you don’t know where it is hidden, whether you are even in the same continent as what you are searching for.
But we like watching them and how they struggle to produce what they needs to survive or perish. Settings like those restores ones faith in man as superior animal.

You have heard the saying: right place, at the right time with the right person, people, with the right frame of mind, and the right characters and qualities, etc. I will like you to go through those ‘rights' once more and see all you required to be who you want to be. Analyze them well. Almost impossible mission if you seek my opinion.
More reasons those reality survival shows are interesting to watch and why the last person standing deserves what the organizers sent his or her way and more. There would have been no way all the rights in his way inside there would have all been perfect.
What you are being told is that once one of those rights is missing, others even if you have them will not fall in place and all needed to fall in place for you to find your treasure or you might end up with another man's treasure that might be short of what you are seeking for or too higher for you to know how to handle . Whichever, both will not bring the peace of mind or whatever it is you are after.

Mission accomplished, headache accomplished. Ever wonders why many with moderate and many with many materials never have peace of mind? Because they are with another man's treasure. They do not meet the requirements of all those rights up there.

They know not themselves, know not their enemies, and certainly know not their treasure. They are roaming around in wrong wilderness. Even with their mansions derail kind of, they are still in their wilderness, still seeking, searching. The mind, the heart is not what you fuck around with trying to tame into a place not meant for it.

Fate, like someone intelligent once said, leads those who will and those who will not, they drag. Whether in your hut or mansion be contented, once you are where you don't supposed to be, they will drag you away from there one way or the other. Talk of restless minds. Fate is not what any human has ever escaped from or fuck about and with. Maybe, you will think that like Jonah, you can outrun or out crawl it. After your rigmarole, you will return to base, to square one to carry out your fate requirements.

So, how we get to this success? how do we get at our correct rights? How do we get those rights to fall in correct places?

The holy book said, ask and you shall be given, seek and you shall find, and knock and the door will be opened unto you. For all who ask was given, those who seek found and those who knocked the door was opened unto them.

In our wilderness, how do we know we are even where we supposed to start searching?- I mean, once in the wrong place we will or might not find anything. We have to be at the right place to seek the right things and that right thing determines our right place or else we will end up with the wrong treasure from the wrong wilderness and our headache continues.

It means that we have to articulate well what we are after, who we are, articulate our mind and heart well and make sure what we are longing for is what we need. Desires can be something else, want and need another.

Is it emotional needs, psychological, physical, spiritual, economical needs, or all? Then it will be time to start seeking at the right places. If you want a vegetable, it is impossible to find it in the bank or hospital. But likely to be found in shopping malls and open markets. You might perchance find one in school store some where shop keepers are allowed to sell such, but the quality might be something else.

Seeking quality things warrants you being quality, looking for a good wife/husband, warrant you being a good wife/husband, seeking for God-fearing partner warrant you being God fearing, seeking for your rights, warrant you being right etc.

If you are party goer, your wilderness will be party houses, clubs, etc., if you’re a churchgoer, your wilderness will be church houses, events. Lawyer? Your wilderness will be law school, court houses, officers, and law enforcers, etc. Teachers?, schools, PTA meetings, education meetings, etc. If you are a cult man, occult houses, houses of worship are likely your wilderness, and those places are where you treasure whatever it is would likely be found in high quality and quantity.

Searching for your treasure outside where you are emotionally rooted, you might come out with one or what looks like one but durability should be your anticipated headache, vice versa. There is no wisdom seeking for any lasting thing where they don’t suppose to be. To find it, look at the right places, at the right time while making sure you are the right person too.

Birds of the same feathers they say flocks together.