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Don't lose yourself trying to please others.
May 19, 2023

Core Spirit member since May 7, 2023
Reading time 3 min.

Love yourself as you are, with the good and bad and not what you would like to become. We are unique!
It matters a lot how we feel about ourselves.
Treat yourself as you are a queen, because you are, you are a queen in your own kingdom.
I believe that each of us has a unique and special path. On this unique path, self-love and self-acceptance are hopeful companions that will help you learn and live the truth as the Universe desires.
Accepting and loving yourself as you are saves you from needlessly wasting huge amounts of energy.
I'm not perfect and I don't intend to focus on becoming. I have wrinkles on my face that remind me of the sad moments and the times that I laughed out loud, the body that doesn't fit the 90/60/90 typology because it reminds me of the two pregnancies I had and when I look next to me and I see the girls I am even more proud of my body and, I admit…….because I like to eat 😁, not much, but I taste everything that comes my way and I like it. We don't have to please everyone. We must love ourselves.
Feel good in your own skin, always choose what you want and let's be as natural as possible. Basically, we have to accept ourselves with all our flaws and love each other as God left us.
I've never been good at achieving outward perfection. I like to be natural, to go out like that on the street, but I also like to go out with make-up, arranged, it depends on my mood and where I have to go.
I see little girls who, most of the time, are much neater than they should be, hiding their age behind a "mask", but why? Why should I appear to be what I am not? Why not show my true features, natural ones even if they are not perfect. I am proud of my age and the way I look. And I can say it out loud, regardless of what the people around and Yes! I am 38 years old and I am proud of myself.
If you want to be happy, you have to accept yourself as you are. But how do we do that in a society that places so much value on perfection?
I think one of the things we have to do is accept our qualities and our flaws. They are what define us. Nobody is perfect. The important thing is to accept them and be at peace with ourselves. It's perfectly normal to have role models, but there are also people like us, with qualities and flaws.
Another thing is to achieve inner-outer balance. Love the way you look. Even though this will give you a lot of self-confidence and happiness that comes from within. Every person is beautiful in their own way. We must not aspire to reach the standards set by society because somewhere along the way we will lose ourselves.
Let's make the difference between a constructive criticism and a negative one. If we are masters of our lives and love ourselves as we are, then we should know the difference between constructive and negative criticism. We don't have to let anyone guide us in how we feel. I think that most of the time those who make mean comments, do so because of their own frustrations and insecurities.
Let's not lose our true value by trying to please others. We have hidden treasures inside us that make us unique and beautiful.
Value yourself. Our value is inestimable.

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