I was recently asked how a male can request a female Massage Therapist.

It really isn’t that complicated.

Simply ask.

However, there is a way not to ask which happened to us recently.

The potential client went on to explain that he experienced an unexpected release during his last and first-ever massage.

YELLOW FLAG!

We advised that we could still work with him though it would be myself (a male) rather than my wife (a female) doing the work.

He declined and advised that it was actually okay if he had this experience as he was a sex addict.

RED FLAG!!!

We advised that due to professional boundaries this would not be okay and our only option available would be working with myself.

The appointment was canceled.

Yes, these are tough and uncertain times for everyone and we could use the monies, but not at any cost.