Too many talks and debates on this one subject. Happiness. For centuries, many have been wondering and wandering here and there trying to seek it out, buy it and by force enjoy it. They ended up knowing that it is not what you buy, not what leave your city or country to another to get. It is within not without and you need no money to have them only little effort from you.

Some in a bid to find it by force ended up closing the door to it permanently in their lives and how, have to start working on the door instead on the happiness. Some even try to pretend they are swimming in it when there is not a single of it in their lives. This phenomena is the worst of it all. It shows that the person putting up show of being happy have given up hope of ever attending it. Imagine a situation of such nature. Living a hell life without of hope of happiness ever.
Self deceit is a virus no one is seeking for it’s vaccine for not many even believe it exist. Yet, it had been penetrating many these days in different guise and terminating them. To think that both educated and the illiterates are both suffering from this malady will tell you how silent killing have been working for the disease. Why would any sound soul be sweating, working to Impress me that he is feeling what he is not feeling? Are you in exam or something like that that needed to pass by all means?
Self deceit is a characteristic of politicians not individual that has nothing to prove to anyone but himself. Self deceit is requirement some people due to the nature of their job needs to get into office and another form to remain in that office, more form to leave it. Not individual that has no business with proving anything to anyone. Happiness is a personal issue even though as head of whatever you are, it can drip down to kids, staffs or colleagues but in adults, it is like race to heaven. You are on your own. Why try to show that you have one when none exist in you? It is sign of losing hope of it which can override all your pretense to show itself by force.

Happiness is what is free inside each person, what is laying dormant in each of us and are eager to surface once you try any effort towards that end. It’s emotion that don’t like laying dormant in our lives. Happiness is never an introvert you hardly read, it’s an extrovert that is ready to show itself and bubble up to the surface transforming every route it passes to the top or down as long as it is real thing not the one bought from any liquor store or drug supermarket. To think that you only need to examine your life, your actions and your wants in the comfort of your house and make little effort towards doing the opposite of what you had been doing and that will be that in your life. No education needed, no money needed to bring it about only your time and effort to say no to what you had been doing. Just try to ask yourself few questions like:
What is problem with me?
What had been stressing my life and causing all these problem?
What do I leave out or add in to get out of where I am now?

Unhappiness always results from carrying too much baggage we don’t need and having wrong ideas of who we are. Why people don’t mind their businesses is because they believed that they are what they are not or think that you can cut corners to get to where you are not or be who you are not. It’s a sign of wrongly putting our problems in the wrong perspectives which shows that we are digging ourselves deeper down the unhappiness ditch to get out of it. Trying to be everything or do everything at the same time, not knowing how to mind our business or fighting holes for another to fall inside like thinking that you can rob Peter to pay Paul and be happy afterwards. If you commit crime in order to get to who you think is your enemy or who you think is standing between you and happiness which to many translate to much money, you will be surprise to learn from many rich people that money doesn’t guarantee happiness. When you are in the habit of comparing yourself to others, it means you had been selecting yourself and minding those others monitoring their progress and at times, they won't even know that someone like you exist.

I don’t know of any other formula that will lead you to happiness outside minding your business, having wrong ideas of oneself, Turning yourself into unknown and unpaid accountant of another man.
I am not happy, why are you not happy?
What’s cause of your unhappiness?
What have you been focusing more on each day?, that must be your source of unhappiness
Move to uproot that thing away from your life, your daily routine.
The early you know that being happy is your right from heaven not a privilege, the better for you.

“Happiness is making the most of what we have, and riches is making the most of what you got”…. Rosamunde Pilcher

What else do you want to hear? Make the best of what you have. That is where you belong at least at that moment. Stop comparison such is at the root of much unhappiness among people. But we are what we are, we never value what we have until we lose them then, we resign to our n fate.
Why pretend to have what you don’t have as if pleasing me or convincing me will add anything to your happiness? Haven't you heard of many rich, religious, and those that pretend to be what they are not committing suicide?

Simply because for years, they have been playing themselves trying to convince the public that they are what they are not till reality catches up with them.
Don't pursue poverty and stress and unhappiness thinking that by acting it out, It will become part of their life. The reality is that we spend much time putting on shows we are bound to lose while neglecting to channel our energy, and our strengths into rightful directions.
Being happy is a seed of rapid growth once well channeled. Start now and usee that heavy log lifted from you.