Debbie A. Anderson

Loving yourself should be your primary focus. Your reason for being here is for you to experience and learn, so yes, it IS all about YOU!

Fundamentally it’s about releasing yourself from NOT loving YOU. Because once you set yourself on the path to the most powerful love you can ever expect to receive your vibration will be fulfilled.

But do you know who you are? I mean, really know YOU?

How much love have you given to yourself today – yesterday – ever?

Do you love everyone and everything around you? Yes, of course you do – well, most of the time anyway.

The biggest thing we all tend to forget is that you are part of every living vibration, therefore by NOT loving yourself, you are not honouring YOU or everything else you love!

It is certainly not being conceited or in the ego. It is about respecting yourself in a universe that already loves you and wants you to acknowledge your purpose and reason for being here.

What we sometimes overlook is that we are energy beings having a human experience. As our energy bounces and dances around on this earth, it interlaces and weaves in and out of every vibrational process, combining itself with every living thing. Through this process it creates and changes in the vibrational energy causing it to expand differently.

So if we are closed or negative about ourselves do you think our energy is communicating the expansiveness which is of love? Of course not. The more we withdraw from the acceptance of loving ourselves, the harder it is to connect with the freedom of this vibration.

Questions I want you to ask yourself are, can you accept being given a compliment without wriggling around uncomfortably? When someone acknowledges something you have done for them, can you accept their thanks without offering up justifications? Can you look at yourself in a mirror and say “I love YOU, I love my vibration” – and mean it!

You should be able to take the praise that is given to you, even from yourself, without extending excuses. If you can, then Kudos to you, because you are on the right track and can accept and embrace the vibration of love. After all, you are of love, we are all of love, which is the vibration of pure and sincere energy.

The more you do this, the more comfortable you will feel with yourself. Others will sense and see your vibration expanding and evolving connecting to your authentic self.

Spiritual growth can only take place when we accept and love our inner and outer soul. If we have experienced years of hearing or telling ourselves we are not loved, then give yourself grace as this is something that will not automatically happen overnight. Like learning anything new, we have to hone our skills and be comfortable with the transformation. Be gentle with you and before long you will not only feel, but see the difference as your soul transforms from clearing away the obstructions. I akin it to losing weight. Initially when you look at yourself in the mirror you may not like what you see. But after time as the mass decreases you see yourself in a different way, with more positive reflection.

Loving yourself is, after all, your divine right. It is a conscious decision that can vibrationally change your life. The transformation begins with you, so what are you waiting for, stand in front of that mirror and start practicing your love of yourself!

I truly believe that we are drawn in a particular direction for a reason.. be it spiritual, love or life… maybe it is about revisiting and forgiving… maybe it is about embracing and learning… whatever it is, when we are in that intention, with complete synchronicity, we learn something.

When we receive messages from the Universe they are timely, and although sometimes meant directly for us, every now and again they are for us to share with others.

I have been seeing 444 in whatever form that spirit brings it towards me to see and today I want to share this with you. Not for any other reason than I feel guided to do so.

At this moment, our world to some may feel like it is in chaos regarding belief and spirituality… possibly linked to past lives and the inaugural power struggles within mankind. I wonder if that state of flux is a reminder to me why I am eclectic in my work… standing alone is not necessarily lonely.

My road, my decision, and thankfully we are all different… it is when we seek inside, listen, and respond to where we are guided that matters most.

We are all here to receive the vibrational blessings on the road to what some refer to as the “awakening”, so the more we connect, calibrate to that frequency in awareness, the easier it does become. This is more about you discovering you, in the I AM essence, so step into that consciousness and let it assist you in whatever way you need.

Each of us has a life journey, and of course the human element that is mixed into it, is our free will, so don’t ever feel you are not exactly where you should be at any given time. Because if you do, sadly you miss out on the “present”… the gift we receive every day. As someone once shared with me, every day we awake and it is a clean slate, we choose what we do with that day, in any given moment. If you are unsure, then ask your guardian angel to assist you. They are there whenever you need them, just speak up, spend time with them, just like you would an old friend. It is about trust, faith and of course patience.

When we are in harmony, synchronized in our soul essence we don’t have to question is this the right path, am I exactly where I should be, because we have trusted that we will receive the signs, the notification if you like, from spirit. Whether this is listening to my intuition… my gut…. my heart. Unconditionally resonating with what happens… good, bad, happy, sad and … everything in between.

So, when I see 444 in whatever form it appears, it is memo from my guides, helpers, angels… God. Saying, you are amazing, you are on track, you are exactly where you should be right now, and when there, you are in full intention to absorb, observe and in that moment.

Spirit communicate with us, so take some time to reflect on what messages you have been sent today, yesterday and be open and ready tomorrow.

Vibrational Blessings Debbie A. Anderson